Loner

Loner by Carmen  Cilliers
Loner by Carmen  Cilliers

Loner

Acrylic On Canvas Abstract Expressionism.

Spare a thought for the loner; the soul ghosting the planet.
Your time is the biggest gift of all.

I have (after uploading and consideration) decided this is not finished. I wish it was, but I got quite emotional painting it. I remember years of feeling like this, having no one, not connecting with anyone, feelings of worthlessness compounding my situation. After all, who likes to admit that they are suffering from loneliness.
I don’t feel this way anymore, I am one of the lucky ones who finally learnt and accepted the value of another’s kindness as not being a weakness to accept, but rather a gift, because as we know, the gift is in receiving graciously as well as giving.
So, please, although I would like to do more work on this, I think it appropriate at this time of the year that we all extend our hearts and arms to those around us who may be feeling like this. Maybe a single person at work whose family live so far away. Have you asked them what they are doing for Christmas? Maybe the person on the street with no shoes. It doesn’t cost much to give them some, or a new blanket, maybe even a hot meal from a local take-away. The thing that helps is just knowing someone cares, and that it’s ok to accept their gift, for one day it will be returned.

  • Shauna  Noble

    Shauna Noble, 11 months ago

    great colour combo in this artwork

  • Mark Gardner

    Mark Gardner, 11 months ago

    great image, like the way the arms are folded, adds to the feel of the loner

  • Henk Stolk

    Henk Stolk, 11 months ago

    Nice abstract art.. like the facial lines

  • Mariette/Flowie van den Heever

    Mariette/Flowi..., 11 months ago

    Carmen this si just so wonderfull, wow you really surprise me. Love the different blues.

  • Mark German

    Mark Germancommunity helper, 11 months ago

    Wonderful painting, Carmen.
    I love the colours – and especially the light around the figure.

  • Carmen  Cilliers

    Carmen Cilliers, 11 months ago

    Thank you. I have decided this is not finished. I wish it was, but I got quite emotional painting it. I remember years of feeling like this, having no one, not connecting with anyone, feelings of worthlessness compounding my situation. After all, who likes to admit that they are suffering from loneliness.
    I don’t feel this way anymore, I am one of the lucky ones who finally learnt and accepted the value of another’s kindness as not being a weakness to accept, but rather a gift, because as we know, the gift is in receiving graciously as well as giving.
    So, please, although I would like to do more work on this, I think it appropriate at this time of the year that we all extend our hearts and arms to those around us who may be feeling like this. Maybe a single person at work whose family live so far away. Have you asked them what they are doing for Christmas? Maybe the person on the street with no shoes. It doesn’t cost much to give them some, or a new blanket, maybe even a hot meal from a local take-away. The thing that helps is just knowing someone cares, and that it’s ok to accept their gift, for one day it will be returned.

  • bites

    bites, 11 months ago

    Beautiful !

  • Carmen  Cilliers

    Carmen Cilliers, 11 months ago

    Hi Eveyone, I have just updated this with a little ‘blub’ / story which I think you missed, it makes the work more meaningful and I’d love for you to read it.
    And if you feel lonesome this Christmas and are in Perth, my door is open!

  • Belinda "BillyLee" Nye

    Belinda "Billy..., 11 months ago

    You are such a committed, focused and gifted artist. Never ever think otherwise, but your art comes from your heart. Like so many famous artist…your art is from deep inside and you amaze me with hard work and committment you show the rest of us. You are an amazing person. Love you. Oh and there is no….copywrite thingy on yours. I wish I knew what you meant so I could see it from my end…will try and see what I have done….dont actually want it on my work. B

  • Carmen  Cilliers

    Carmen Cilliers, 11 months ago

    It’s not on, it’s underneath… think its an automatic thing so don’t worry about it.

  • Helene Kippert

    Helene Kippert, 11 months ago

    Wonderful words and work Carmen

  • Carmen  Cilliers

    Carmen Cilliers, 11 months ago

    THANKS helen!

  • genevieve m

    genevieve m, 11 months ago

    great thoughts to share not just at this bizzarre time of year but always,certainly different from your other works. Anyway God bless you Carmen.

  • dogbreath

    dogbreath, 11 months ago

    you did it again!.. beautiful…. even more so after I read the story with it.

  • Belinda "BillyLee" Nye

    Belinda "Billy..., 11 months ago

    I checked out your other web site. Wow, its impressive. You are so talented. Going to bed now. Wish I could have a day with you, you could teach me how to promote and sell on line and I would give you printmaking classes and um, well, be a friend???? Anyway, wish I had some time because I would love to be able to do what you do. B

  • Carmen  Cilliers

    Carmen Cilliers, 11 months ago

    Oh Billy, wish you hadn’t checked out my other site, today of all days, I was trying to edit it and it kept bombing out so I have a bit of unfinished business to fix up! Thanks for taking the time though, and hopefully if you ever go back it will be up to scratch again. And anyway… I think we’ll have a day together one day, I have a feeling my BFriend is moving to Melbourne next year which means I’ll be visiting your town! X c

  • Carmen  Cilliers

    Carmen Cilliers, 11 months ago

    carmencillierstheartist.blogspot.com !!! I have managed to do some fine tuning – it looks a tad better than when you would have gone in. God, I though no one looked!

  • Pete Chennell

    Pete Chennell, 11 months ago

    love the piece and the sentiment…very nice

  • mlgkats

    mlgkats, 11 months ago

    this is really great , dark blues and blacks on the back ground with red and yellows of the builds and the yellow witch make the lady stand out , you get the feeling of alone feeling you can get even when there are thousands of people around you, some times we all can feel this i know i do a lot, well done

  • mlgkats

    mlgkats, 11 months ago

    the story to the side i really touching , hits to close to home with me, every holiday is like this for me

  • clau

    clau, 11 months ago

    I agree with Mark: ....- Wonderful painting, Carmen -

  • suellen

    suellen, 11 months ago

    A lovely piece Carmen .

  • Carmen  Cilliers

    Carmen Cilliers, 11 months ago

    Thanks everyone, you have inspired me to finish it…and not leave it abandoned by the surfacing of old emotions… this week, I promise!

  • mufa

    mufa, 11 months ago

    There’s something special about this one

  • mgadise2

    mgadise2, 11 months ago

    another masterpiece carmen..i think you’re already developing your own unique style..just keep your work consistant and you will be exhibiting soon.

  • Herkissable

    Herkissable, 11 months ago

    lovely composition and thoughts great colors too :+}

  • Shylie Edwards

    Shylie Edwards, 11 months ago

    had a little cry with this…....well done!!!! best wishes!!!

  • Howard K.  Shyne

    Howard K. Shyne, 11 months ago

    Quite powerful. Profound.

  • Firedrake

    Firedrake, 11 months ago

    Very lovely!

  • alistair mcbride

    alistair mcbride, 11 months ago

    Stunning!

  • Carmen  Cilliers

    Carmen Cilliers, 11 months ago

    Thank you, I am touched that this painting and sentiments were able to reach into a few hearts.

  • Susan Grissom

    Susan Grissom, 11 months ago

    This is a beautiful painting and your story is so very heartwarming

  • Antanas

    Antanas, 11 months ago

    beautiful composition and colors, well done

  • sweetscent62

    sweetscent62, 11 months ago

    I think everyone can relate to this at some time during their lives Carmen… did painting it help? Wen

  • kathibook

    kathibook, 3 months ago

    This is a brilliant painting! I adore this one! I read earlier that you have painted over this…what a shame. One of my fav’s for sure. Stunning.

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